Don’t be ridiculous!

Literally, the message of this post is the title. I know it does not apply to everyone but please do circulate among relevant people :)

You know how you surf the net for hot tips or just new ideas on basically anything? Well, I have done that in search of the best individual eyelashes and I stumbled upon some videos. Most of them are quite amateur as you would expect but I found some amazing makeups and  some wired tips as well.

One thing you have to know about me before reading on is that I still find it weird – regardless of sexual orientation – when guys know more about makeup, nails or hair than women. (I am not the perfect example for the opposite sex though as I know more about Moto GP than designer clothes & shoes.)

I have watched a good 25 videos on lashes, brows and make-up and I have to say that our male friends have put us to shame. Their ideas are amazing and the execution is immaculate. An example Michael James’ violent red make-up which is obviously not an everyday thing. 

Michael’s eyebrow routine is amazing as well, although shaving off your brow is a bit too much for me as I am a firm believer in enhancing the natural beauty instead of totally ignoring and concealing it. In my opinion this one is better if you are going for a natural look.

On the note of being ridiculous, I am not going to be popular when I tell you this: orange skin and huge, peacock-feathery eyelashes like this

Image retrieved from Google

Image retrieved from Google

are a no-no for everyday makeup. Let me take this further: orange skin is NEVER sexy!!! Let me just show you what I mean:

Image retrieved from http://thechive.com/2012/10/08/good-thing-nobody-will-ever-know-your-tan-is-fake-25-photos/horrible-fake-tans-0/

Image retrieved from thechive.com

Ladies, believe me, I have 3 brothers and a husband, I know. This is NOT beautiful. You have to tone it down in your everyday life and use the extra oomph on special occasions but even then, try to stay true to yourself as you do not want to scare the guy off when he happens to see you without all the hoopla.

A Million Ways You Can Damage Your Hair

We can easily abuse our hair without knowing it, when using certain products or using them too much. Why do we have to take good care of our hair? How do we know if it is still healthy? How can we damage it?

Picture by Gaby

The hair is one of the most fascinating structures of the body. It grows the fastest, about half an inch (1.25cm) each month.

Its development is faster in the summer than in the winter, more rapid at night than in the daytime.

Hair growth has two phases: the growing phase (anagen), which can last up to six years, and the degenerating phase (catagen), when the hair follicle stops growing and begins shrinking.

The hair on our scalp also becomes extremely elastic when wet and can stretch about one-quarter of its length. This, and the fact that it returns to its normal length when it dries, helps hairdressers in styling the hair. How do you know if your hair is still healthy?

The signs of healthy hair and scalp are:

  • Pliancy
  • Smooth surface
  • Tangles little
  • Slightly oily
  • Scalp is free of flakes or redness.

Signs of a damaged hair:

  • Dryness
  • Straw-like structure
  • Poor & brittle
  • Lacks elasticity (breaks off easily)
  • Scalp produces flakes.

So how do you damage your hair?

Our hair is prone to wear and tear, mechanical, natural and chemical damage and the condition of the scalp also has an effect on the strength and health of it.

Wear and tear and mechanical damage come hand in hand when:

  • Picture by Viqe

    Hair is washed incorrectly, i.e.: with the wrong shampoo. In this case, the damage would be only a mild one.

  • Harsh objects are used during styling, such as heated rollers, metal combs or even plastic brushes.
  • Elastic bands are applied, as they tear the hair further.
  • Electric tongs are used as these are drying and can burn the hair’s ends.
  • Sunbathing, swimming in seawater or chlorinated water and even when central heating is put on, as these are also very drying.
  • Perming or straightening hair.

Natural damage occurs when there is insufficient moisture level in the cortex, for the naturally contained water will evaporate and the hair will dry out. This can be a hereditary tendency, part of the natural ageing process or due to hormonal imbalance. Pregnancy, poor diet and emotional problems can also trigger it.

Chemical damage happens when the hair is bleached or tinted carelessly or too often. It becomes over-porouse, very stretchy and soft. Hair tangles badly and easily and may even show brassy or green tones.

Condition of the scalp can be:

  • Dry, flaky, red and itchy. It causes dry, powdery dandruff on the scalp, hair and eventually on the clothing. This is usually hereditary but can also occur as a result of poor diet, vitamin deficiency (B12) or poor health. Scratching or harsh brushing and combing can aggravate it as well as irritating chemicals such as wrong types of hair products.
  • Greasy, oily, red and sore with the face, neck and shoulders covered in spots. Dandruff is yellow, greasy and soft to touch this time. This condition can cause more severe problems such as Seborrhoeic Dermatitis, a chronic scaling eruption accompanied by inflammation. Further complications can arise when the scalp is scratched.

Watch out for the next article on hair products to learn how to avoid many of these problems and have healthy, shiny and beautiful hair.